For Clients facing an unwanted divorce...
Is your client facing emotional, physical, or verbal abuse? Infidelity? Neglect? If yes, they may know they need to escape, but they're probably worried about going against God’s will.
I have good news for you. They might need to divorce to save their life and sanity. And God is right beside them.
In The Life-Saving Divorce They'll Learn:
- How to know if they should stay or if they should go.
- The four key Bible verses that support divorce for infidelity, neglect, and physical and/or emotional abuse.
- Twenty-seven myths about divorce that aren’t true for many Christians.
- Why the data says that a divorce may be the absolute best thing for their children.
- How to deal with friends and family who categorically disapprove of divorce.
- How to find safe friends and churches after a divorce.
For clients who need a Life-Saving Divorce, there is hope!
Refer clients to a free support group here.
Rev. Dr. David Instone-Brewer
“...this book is both empathic and well researched, employing the latest stats alongside clear advice. A must for anyone involved in pastoral work and a lifeline for those suffering within marriages.”
Pastor Neil Schori
“Gretchen is giving freedom for captives. She helped me think deeply about deeply held wrong ideas related to divorce!”
Pastor at The Edge Church, key witness in the Drew Peterson murder case
Pastor Cole Brown
"I have been in ministry for roughly 20 years as a pastor, church planter, missionary and mentor of church leaders. After reading this book I am both exceedingly grateful that it now exists and heartbroken that I did not have this resource the first 20 years of my ministry. When it comes to my response to people hurting in difficult marriages, I have committed countless errors and sat silently while other church leaders did the same. This book would have saved me from every one of them."
For clients navigating high-conflict Custody after unwanted divorce:
Sometimes clients flee family violence, and the harmful patterns of behavior that destroyed the marriage continue as post-separation abuse in family court.
When they said "I do" - they meant it.
They stayed. They tried. They forgave.
Until staying became an unthinkable risk.
Then, when no other choice remained... they chose safety.
And now they are --
- co-parenting with someone they're terrified of
- trying to protect their kids from ongoing harm
- tangled in a court system they don’t understand.
Most counselors were never trained to support protective parents who are forced to share custody after escaping abuse.
These parents need specialized resources.
Start by adding the High-Conflict Risk Index to your professional toolbox today - totally FREE:
Templates + Tools
FREEDOM Navigator provides court-tested templates and tools to designed to help your clients clearly track and organize evidence for their case.
Group Sessions
In BASECAMP, they'll find savvy, strategic support for next steps, weekly support calls, and guidance to get the best outcomes while saving legal fees.
1:1 Support
For protective parents who need even more support, BATTLE PLAN provides premium 1:1 personalized guidance, plus everything in BASECAMP.
For clients with kids asking hard questions about God:
Will God ever end heartache and injustice?
If so, why doesn't He fix it NOW?
Young or old, each of us must weigh these heavy questions. Without answers, we struggle to trust God's love.
Even young children wrestle with these questions. And even the most faith-filled parents battle to offer their children convincing answers.
Trials often shatter fragile faith... especially when God seems silent.
Tales of the Exodus will immerse readers in the thrilling journey of the Exodus while also answering hard questions, drawing the entire family into resilient faith that will last a lifetime. This series especially transforms the perspective of people of every age who have experienced:
- injustice or suffering
- violence or trauma
- grief or loss
- struggle or pain
Each volume draws readers deeper into Exodus' timeless saga of
hate, heartache, healing, and hope!
Download FREE coloring pages and get updates on upcoming dramatized audio releases here.
Homeschool Mom of Tweens
"Our family enjoys not just the story, but also the deep conversations that follow!"
39yo Reader
"I call them 'easy-to-digest apologetics for the ages'! These books are a work of spiritual art!"
11yo Reader
"Tales of the Exodus makes me feel like I'm actually there in there story."
For clients rebuilding after church harm:
When they've experienced harm inside a religious structure, they may be:
- seeking to reclaim identity after spiritual abuse.
- untangling belief structures that caused deep, lasting harm.
- identifying and healing from church trauma.
It's devastating to lose a church community, especially if that loss follows other life crises such as chronic illness, grief, or divorce.
If you have clients who are rebuilding after this heartbreak, it's helpful to refer them to someone who understands this unique type of pain.
1:1 Coaching
Journey with an empathic guide to navigate healing with grace and grounding. Uniquely tailored to nurture and strengthen your identity and help you renew a connection with God in a supportive, non judgmental partnership.
Training
Empowering churches to avoid the common causes of church harm through conferences in in-servicing. We offer trauma-informed alternatives to traditional 12 steps models of healing.
American Sign Language
Deaf clients receive direct access to services through communication with providers fluent in ASL.